Our culture had been holding us away from this 'treasure island' for a very, very long time. 'Butt', not to mention 'asshole' in our minds is rarely associated with anything pleasant or cherished. For centuries we resorted to thinking that butt sex is something only gay men can do and enjoy. Oh, yes, they do! And, oh yes, anyone else can enjoy it too!

With little regard to cultural and sexual orientations, attitudes and persuasions, both men and women alike have their anuses designed in a very similar manner. The human anus and rectum just above it, when stimulated properly, can bring the most delightful orgasmic pleasure to its owner. Sure, the level of sensitivity varies from individual to individual, but fundamental physiology doesn't. The anus and rectum are packed with nerve endings that are highly receptive to a tender touch. Besides, men's prostate glands can only be reached through the rectum. Very many men do react to the pressure on their prostate just as well as women do with G-spot.

From the viewpoint of human physiology, just about anyone could take a great pleasure from sexually attending to their anus. It is ultimately your personal, cultural and emotional choice whether to give it a try or not.

If you even wander, the good place to start is to give your ass a little exam. When you are taking a shower, check it out. Is it tight and clenched? Try to relax it. Then in few seconds tighten it again and then relax even deeper. Hold your finger there and practice. If you ever decide to try anal stimulation this is the very first crucial rule - learn to relax, the deeper the better.

If you deside to advance further, do it slowly. Start with a small delicate toy and tons of lubricant. If you are with partner talk to him or her. Let them know exactly what you feel the moment you do. Communicate, communicate, communicate.

We also strongly recommend to consult the Nina Harley's Guide to Anal Sex video.
In an easy going entertaining and engaging manner it delivers tons of information that could very useful forr both beginners and appreciative practitioners of anal sex.

If your first experiences are succesful rest asure there are many options and opportunities for further exploration in the land of anal sex toys.

Many devoted practisioners of anal sex love to combine it with other stimulation. A good butt plug is an indispensable helper for that. Committed to all the best we carry Tristan - a state of the art, all around perfect silicone butt plug..

For a butt plug spiced with a vibration , check out Tush Teaser or better yet Remote Control Butt Plug.

'Anal beads' toy is a set of beads on a string which are inserted into the rectum and then slowly (or quickly) puled out creating a shuddering waves of pleasure with every bead passing the anus. In our store anal beads are represented by String-O-Pearls- silicone pile of beads and Pleasure Curve - an acrylic arched wand with the beads stringed along the curve.

Any dildo or vibrator designed to stimulate the G-spot will do a beautiful job massaging the prostate glands. Check out the 'Prostate care' collection in men's toys or browse the 'G-spot dills' and 'G-spot vibes' for even bigger selection of toys with this specialty. Just remember, if the toy you are about to use for anal insertion is made of jelly or other porous material, dress up this toy into a condom. The rectum houses number of bacteria that are right and helpful there but not anywhere else. If your toy can not be washed effectively it will carry these harmful bacteria. Pores in a jelly toy can host such bacteria even through a careful wash.

Many couples are discovering and embracing the pleasures of anal sex. By far it is not just men who serve the penetration. More and more male partners enjoy the orgasm when their girlfriends do the job of anal penetration. For these couples our wide collection of dildos and harnesses could be of great interest. A good dildo in the right harness can turn a women into a magnificent back door lover. At the same time a harness can support another dildo or a vibe that stimulate the vagina or clit. Better yet, check out our remarkable double ended dildos - the Ying-an-Yang, Nexus and Majesty. Placed in a harness with through opening this uniquely designed silicone dildo can serve two masters at the same time and with brilliance. For more info on harness see the 'about harness' chapter.

Cardinal Rules of Anal Sex.

 Use lubricant. Always and lots of it. With a big toy, or small. With silicone, or acrylic, or plastic. Put as much lube as you think is plenty, and than add some more. The rectum has a very delicate liner tissue. And, unlike vagina it has no mechanism for self-lubrication, it can suffer an abrasion and tears very easily.

 Never insert in your anus anything that can slip out off you hands and go all way into the rectum. After all, an emergency room is not a particularly relaxing conclusion to any sexual festivity. Make sure that the toy has a flared base or a cord to pull it out safely.

 Never insert in your anus anything with sharp edges.

 Always use condom if you want to share the toy with a partner. Never insert in a vagina or take into your mouth anything that just came out off the anus. Thoroughly clean and preferably boil the toy (if it is silicone) in between uses.

 Relax. An anal sex should not be painful. If you feel pain, your sphincter (the circling anal muscle) is still clenched. A well relaxed tranquil sphincter is a key to an enjoyable anal sex.

 Start small, go slow and act gentle. And don't make a secret of what you feel, communicate with your partner.